My Navy career, spanning over two decades, instilled a daily sense of meaningful purpose. Whether it was protecting national security, leading teams through complex technical challenges, or helping junior sailors grow into leaders, there was always a clear sense of why behind the work. But as I prepare to transition out, the “why” is now quiet. The uniform is off. The titles disappeared. A two-decade tradition ended: No morning briefing awaited.

Choosing a New Mission

Now, I have some solid plans in motion—I was selected as a Fellow at Microsoft via the Hiring our Heroes program, diving into the civilian tech world as a Technical Program Manager. But as any veteran will tell you, plans and purpose aren’t always the same thing.

I had to pause and ask myself:

• What still drives me now that I’m out?
• What does service look like without the uniform?
• How do I build something that’s mine?

These weren’t theoretical questions—they were personal. I have my kids watching me figure this out. I have my wife watching and helping me figure this out. I owed it to them and myself to make this next chapter intentional.

From SERVICE to Service

At first, I thought I had to replicate my military role in civilian life. But over time, I realized that the real mission wasn’t the job — it was the impact. At Microsoft, I started finding purpose not just in the tech, but in the people—in mentoring other veterans, bridging gaps between cybersecurity and business goals, and bringing that military mindset of teamwork and adaptability to complex projects.

The Power of Being Present

One of the most unexpected gifts in this journey has been time—time with my family. After years of moving fast and always being “on call,” I found purpose in being present. Coaching my kids, having dinner at the table, showing up in ways I couldn’t before—it reminded me that leadership doesn’t stop at work.

Purpose Isn’t a Job Title

Life after the military isn’t about replicating the military experience in a new job. It’s about designing a life that feels meaningful. Whether it’s tech, entrepreneurship, family, or service to others—purpose is built, not assigned.

The mission doesn’t stop when you leave the military. But now, for the first time, you get to choose it.